Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio


Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio

“To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I’ve ever written.”

My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.

8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘In five years, will this matter?’

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.

35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come.

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45। “Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.”

46. Friends are the family that we choose for ourselves.

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When Redheads are gone, no one will have Redheads

I have three kids; 18-23. We had a conversation over the Thanksgiving Holiday about the eminent auto industry bail out, loan, assistance package; whatever you want to call it. Here’s what came of the conversation:
• Not one of the kids would buy a new “Detroit” made car if they had the money for a new one. (One would by a Ford Pickup)
• Ditto on previously owned from the same makers.
• Cars of choice were VW, BMW, Subaru & Audi; both new and used.
• They tell me that their friends would not be far off these choices.
The point is; if you can’t attract the Y generation now, what does the future bring for the “big three”? I know, you are asking what about my wife and I? She’d take a BMW X5, and for me; probably another BMW, too.
My wife has a 9 year old Toyota Land Cruiser, and I have an 8 year old BMW. The kids all drive well used Land Rovers. I love British vehicles. They have great interiors and depreciate like a rock. Ooops, that brings up a great segway. Please, just look across the “big pond”, if you want to see our future. Great Brittan does a great job of representing what not to do for and with a number of industries.
Packard, Studebaker, Hudson and more recently Oldsmobile were all absorbed in the market place. Life is for the living and life goes on.
Now, reasons to save heavy industries like the automobile business;
• National security?
• Job security?
• Political expediency?
• Tradition?
• Whatever…
I’m not buying it. None of those reasons work for me…, but…
Business moves on; companies fail, who remembers Pan Am, TWA, the first Frontier Airlines, Eastern Airlines on and on and on…. Why didn’t we save any of those businesses? They were strapped with hurtful labor agreements, external regulations, fuel costs, less than excellent management teams. Thousands of employees, too! Why didn’t we save them?
My business is off in the last 9 months, and my retirement funds are down over that same period. My red hair puts me in a class of only 2% of the world’s population. It is estimated by some math minded individuals that redheads will be extinct by 2110. Not one Senator or Representative from the halls of Congress has offered to consider legislation to bail me out or protect my tenuous genetic strain; not one!
When red hair becomes extinct, there will be no more redheads Probably the best reason to bail me out, but not an automaker. When GM is gone, there will still be lots of cars and trucks being made. But, when the last redhead is bread out of existence, there will be no more redheads. Makes you think, doesn’t it? ….tc
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Trinity Property Inspection Newsletter

Trinity Property Inspection Newsletter
Your one stop for Home and EIFS/Stucco Inspections
April 2009

Ten Tips to Speed Up Your Home Inspection from InspectorLocator.com

Sellers can speed their home inspection by following these suggestions. The inspection will go smoother, with fewer concerns to delay closing.
1. Confirm that water, electric and gas service are on, with gas pilot lights burning.
2. Ensure pets won’t hinder the inspection. Ideally, they should be removed from premises or secured outside. Tell your agent about any pets at home.
3. Replace burned out bulbs to avoid a “Light is inoperable” report that may suggest an electrical problem.
4. Test smoke and carbon monoxide detectors, and replace dead batteries.
5. Clean or replace dirty HVAC air filters. They should fit securely.
6. Remove stored items, debris and wood from foundation. These may be cited as “conducive conditions” for termites.
7. Remove items blocking access to HVAC equipment, electric service panels, water heaters, attics and crawl spaces.
8. Unlock areas the inspector must access – attic doors or hatches, electric service panels, closets, fence gates and crawl spaces.
9. Trim tree limbs to 10′ from the roof and shrubs from the house to allow access.
10. Attend to broken or missing items like doorknobs, locks and latches; window panes, screens and locks; gutters, downspouts and chimney caps.
Checking these areas before your home inspection is an investment in selling your property. Your real estate agent will thank you!

Deferred maintenance is the biggest problem that I encounter daily during Home Inspections and EIFS/Stucco Inspections. My Ten Tips include:
1. Cleaning and repairing gutter systems–full and plugged gutter systems actually can cause considerable damage to a house.
2. Trimming shrubbery and trees– 2 feet to 10 is great but the primary consideration is so that the trees and shrubbery do not hit the house when the wind blows.
3. Repairing faucets, toilets and miscellaneous water leaks
4. Repairing and painting exterior wood trim–an aggravating job but somebody has to do it.
5. Removing oil slicks from garages
6. Cleaning humidifiers and replacing the filter
7. Removing debris from crawlspaces, garages and yards
8. Replacing burnt out light bulbs
9. Replacing missing window screens
10. Replacing broken or missing electrical outlet cover plates–this is a safety concern too!
A thought for the day.

Extremists think “communication” means agreeing with them.

Leo Rosten
The goal of Trinity Property Inspection is to provide our clients with the knowledge they need to make an informed decision concerning their new home purchase. All deficiencies are placed in perspective with a recommended corrective action. It is recommended that homeowners keep their inspection report and use it as a guide for maintaining their home.

I perform both Home and EIFS/Stucco Inspections. Why wait for your home inspector to refer you to a stucco inspector when you can get both at the same time. When I book a combined home and EIFS/Stucco inspection I discount the price. There is some degree of overlap between the two inspections and I am already there!

Trinity Property Inspections, Inc
Your one stop for General Home Inspections & EIFS/Stucco Inspections
Peter Szabo, CMI
Certified Master Inspector

Business # (720) 290-2718
Fax # (303) 690-6661
szabo1@q.com
http://www.inspectorpages.com/pszabo

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Good News and Upbeat Tone on Denver Real Estate!

HUD chief sees early signs of housing turnaround: WASHINGTON (Reuters) — The U.S. housing market is showing some early signs of a turnaround, but its too early to say if a full recovery is underway, Housing and Urban Development Secretary Shaun Donovan said on Wednesday. read more here
March sees highest total dollar volume sales in Eagle County: Vail Valley saw the highest total dollar volume of real estate sales of any month so far this year in March, with more than $59.3 million in sales. read more here
Pending Home Sales Rise, Housing Affordability Near Record: Pending home sales rose with many first-time buyers taking advantage of historically good housing affordability conditions, according to the National Association of Realtors®. The Pending Home Sales Index, a forward-looking indicator based on contracts signed in March, increased 3.2 percent to 84.6 from a level of 82.0 in February, and is 1.1 percent higher than March 2008 when it was 83.7. read more here
RealtyTrac: Denver foreclosures down 46% from a year ago: Foreclosure filings in the Denver metro area declined nearly 46 percent in the first three months of 2009 from the same period a year ago, according to data from RealtyTrac Inc. read more here
Colorado’s economic future: Change on the Horizon: Compared to the country as a whole, Colorado didn’t fare too badly in 2008. Not to say that everything is great; retail, hospitality and real estate took especially hard hits. But there are some bright spots beginning to poke through the economic clouds for the year ahead. read more here
A Look at Case-Shiller Numbers, by Metro Area: The S&P/Case-Shiller home-price index, a closely watched gauge of U.S. home prices, continued to post declines in February but the pace stopped setting records after 16 consecutive months. Dallas, Denver, Cleveland, Boston and Charlotte managed to avoid double-digit year-over-year declines. read more here

The Elite Eight
Denver neighborhoods that saw the highest average sale
price increase in 2008:

Baker: Average Sold Price = $255,000; + 8% in 2008.
Berkeley East: Average Sold Price = $314,000; + 7% in 2008
Cherry Creek: Average Sold Price = $1,161,000; + 11% in 2008
East Highland: Average Sold Price = $296,000; + 7% in 2008
Platt Park South: Average Sold Price = $402,000; + 4% in 2008
Rosedale: Average Sold Price = $360,000; +17% in 2008
University Hills: Average Sold Price = $303,000; + 6% in 2008 Wash Park East: Average Sold Price = $705,000; + 8% in 2008

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ROAD TRIPPING SPRING 2009

ROAD TRIPPING SPRING 2009
My son, William, and I took a head start on summer road tripping by taking a spring road trip. Some of you may not know this, but William suffered from a duplicating cyst on his esophagus which required a very complex form of thoracic surgery this winter. After three weeks in the hospital (UCHSC) and another 5 weeks recovering at home, we were ready to hit the road!
Three thousand miles of Land Cruiser fun couldn’t have been more apropos. If you haven’t done any serious road tripping recently, there are some things you should not leave home without.
iPhone (The GPS, Internet & Travel Features are quite simply awesome – forget all the dashboard razzle dazzle, the iPhone does it all.)
Books on Tape or their equivalent (A good reader can really make the miles blow by.)
Back to the trip; there really is no comparison to a two man trip. The back seat can then become almost everything; bed, cooler storage, closet, etc.
Here’s what we did. We left Denver and headed north. First major destination, Devil’s Tower, WY; I must have been very impressionable when the movie Close Encounters of the 3rd Kind was a box office hit, but I had always wondered about it. Getting there is amazing; every eco-zone is explored. Wyoming is very diverse in terrain and industry. Take your pick. DT makes no sense, and after reading about it, talking to the local Rangers, and physically driving and walking around and near it still leaves many unanswered questions. It is an enigma wrapped in a conundrum surrounded by a riddle. It really can’t be explained, but must be experienced. It’s like one of those after midnight stories, “you have to have been there”.
With Wyoming in our rear view mirror, our next stops were a clear view ahead through our newly installed windshield with a brand new pock mark from a passing truck; the Black Hills, Deadwood, and Mt. Rushmore.
First, the Black Hills are just that. So thick with dark, old growth pines they look black from a distance. Spectacular scenery, but we both agreed, the summer tourist season might be too much for our patience. Billboards ruin many stretches of highway. It makes you love Colorado’s moratorium on new billboard construction and replacement.
As we pulled into Deadwood, SD, I couldn’t help but wonder what it was like 150+ years ago. It instantly reminded me of Lee Marvin in Paint Your Wagon singing, I Was Born Under a Wondering Star. I can’t help it, I had an unusual childhood. Anyway, once again, the old mining town, now gambling town (Tourist Trap), clearly draws on one’s imagination. But, beckoning right around the corner, the main course is waiting for us.
Mt. Rushmore, is truly majestic. You really don’t get the scale, ambiance or mass of the monument from pictures or movies (OK, Maybe a little from Richie Rich). Once again, “you gotta be there”! The formality of the monument really took me by surprise.
Next stop, Rapid City, SD; we stopped at The Firehouse Brewing Co. Some good food, lots of people (Locals and travelers like us) and of course the home brews were pretty darn good!
Then it was off to Chamberlain, SD and our crossing of the Missouri River. Remember, it’s spring time and the rivers are full to their banks. It is really quite a sight coming from the high arid plains of eastern Colorado. Far and away, both William and I were struck with the quality of Interstate 90 all the way across South Dakota. It’s 412 Miles of smooth as a baby’s behind concrete. This is clearly one state that uses its gas tax as it should be used!
We followed I-90 right into Minnesota, then Wisconsin and on to Illinois. I can assure you the closer you get to Chicago the quality of the road gets worse. But first, let me tell you about the Wind Farms in Minnesota. We were so impressed by their size and scale that we exited and drove into one of the wind farms. Soon after walking around and taking a few pictures, an older gentleman pulled up, and gave us the low down. Xcel Energy is big-time into wind farming!
And, of course you can’t forget, Wall Drug! We started seeing signs in Wyoming for Wall Drug, “America’s Favorite Roadside Attraction”. I’m told they have signs on the South Pole. Who knows? I would reiterate, there are way too many bill boards in South Dakota.
As we continued east on I-90, Minnesota was dotted with farms. What appeared to be all sizes and shapes, farms everywhere! As we approached Wisconsin, we dropped down into La Crosse and crossed the banks of the Mighty Mississippi River. You know it’s going to be big, you know its spring time and sure enough, it’s everywhere! Right up to the edge and over in places; The Mississippi lives up to its name, Mighty.
From La Crosse, it’s just a couple of hours before we turn south on I-94 and begin our dissent into Chicago. We pass Madison, WI, home of the University of Wisconsin and the dreaded “Badgers”. Traffic becomes more intense, no more setting the cruise control and hanging on, trucks, trucks and more trucks, and now it’s raining.
As we pull into the northern suburbs of Chicago, our destination for the night, Evanston, IL home of the Northwestern Wildcats. Every year, the Duke Women’s Lacrosse Team plays these Wildcats, and in my five year tenure as a Duke Lax Dad, we have lost 4 of these meetings, but it was a home game in Durham, never did we win against the edge of Lake Michigan. It was a nice enough night. Not too cold, not too windy, for spring weather, it would be considered a nice evening by the locals. None the less we went to the after party once again frustrated by the loss.
We were up really, really early to drop some family at Midway, but then it was off to our final destination, further east to Indiana and the University of Notre Dame where I dropped William off to clean up his affairs prior to returning home for the summer.
I learned a great deal from this trip. First and foremost, this is a big country, and every time I crisscross it, I remember what a great country it is. Second, if you find yourself to often in a flying tubular petree dish, take some time. Get a map. Head out on the open road and be born again. And, last but not least, if you want to get closer to someone, put them in the car and put a few thousand miles behind you. Isn’t that really what it is all about?

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Trinity Property Inspection Newsletter

Trinity Property Inspection Newsletter
Your one stop for Home and EIFS/Stucco Inspections
April 2009

Working with Contractors

Many of my clients have hired contractors to make repairs to their home. They all encounter the same two big questions; first how do I find a good contractor, and how do I communicate with them. The second question doesn’t usually come to light until it’s too late.

There are several resources available to help locating reputable businesses:

The Better Business Bureau (BBB.com). At the BBB you can find companies, their contact information, and some information on their history with clients.

Servicemagic.com is another online resource that can help

Qualified Real Estate Services, Inc. at qualifiedlist.com is another

The second and bigger question is “How to I communicate my needs to the contractor and how do I know what the contractor is really going to do? This is the function of the written quote and the repair order. These have many different names but the purpose is the same.

The written quote should detail exactly what the contractor intends to do and how much is to be charged for each service provided. The repair order is the instruction given to the workers telling them what to do and how much to collect (if they are charged with that responsibility). The two documents should contain the same details. Some companies will use one document for both.

Many contractors put as little information in their estimate as possible. For example “Install new roofing and flashings”. What does that mean? Are they going to tear off the old shingles? Get everything in writing! Often a verbal “I’ll take care of that is soon forgotten.

Before you start shopping for a contractor, decide what you want done as far as your experience will let you. For example do you want a roof repair or a new roof? Often that decision is one you will have to make with a contractor.
Before you start shopping for a contractor, decide what you want done as far as your experience will let you. For example do you want a roof repair or a new roof? Often that decision is one you will have to make with a contractor.

Your estimate should include:
• the cost of any demolition and the disposal of the waste materials
• the quality and design of the new materials
• a time frame for the work to be completed
• a cost plan for discovery of damage unknown before the start of the project (time and materials)
• contractor insurance declaration
• job site clean-up

This is just a sample list of things to consider as you interview two or three contractors ask them questions. I recommend writing down every question you can come up with before they arrive them take notes of their answers and use your new list to interview the next contractor. Talk to your friends who have had similar work done learn from their experience.
A thought for the day.

COMMUNICATION is something so simple and difficult that we can never put it in simple words. T.S. Mathews
The goal of Trinity Property Inspection is to provide our clients with the knowledge they need to make an informed decision concerning their new home purchase. All deficiencies are placed in perspective with a recommended corrective action. It is recommended that homeowners keep their inspection report and use it as a guide for maintaining their home.

Trinity Property Inspections, Inc
Your one stop for General Home Inspections & EIFS/Stucco Inspections
Peter Szabo, CMI
Certified Master Inspector

Business # (720) 290-2718
Fax # (303) 690-6661
szabo1@q.com
http://www.inspectorpages.com/pszabo

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CAROLINE CLYDE CRYER, BA


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CAROLINE’S GRADUATION DAY!





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